So my bf and have been together 3 yrs. We love the hell out of each other,but there is just one problem. When we got together we both said to each other that sex wasn't everything and alot of people forget that's not how you build a relationship,family,soulmate. So things were great till his behavior changed. I noticed he go to the bathroom alot and be in there let's say longer then ten mins. So I didn't say anything. Then he started putting locks on his phone. So again I didn't say anything. Then I noticed that just about every 8 of ten times he would go to the bathroom thru out the week, he would come out and be so horny that when he ask me "can I get some kisses?" So I would take care of man just like the next women. Anyway so the other day I finally said something and he had nothing to say to me because he new he was caught. So I got my hands on his phone and found him on porn sights chat rooms bbw and I flipped. I couldn't hold it in anymore. So for three years this has been the number one fight for us and I just don't know what to do or how to feel. And the reason why I'm upset is bc not one time has he asked me to watch or do anything new or extra. And for him to get "happy" watching some other chick and bc you can't have her in person you come to me. And the sad part he don't even care anymore if I get "my high". So what do I do?