My best friend is a guy. He has been my best friend for years. Nearly 9 years now. I'm 25 he is 27. We have been through everything imaginable. He is my person. I am his person. Full disclosure. We have actually never slept together despite what everyone thinks. We're totally those friends you see in public and you're convinced we're dating, married, or something.

I knew him before he met the girl he ended up marrying. As best friends, we are able to be brutally honest with each other (sorry if anything offends you and sorry if you think I overstepped but he and I are tight and can tell each other anything). The girl he married is wild. Manipulates him. Makes him feel small. Punches him if she doesn't get her way. This is more recent like in the past 2 years. But me and my intuition could tell before he married her that she was bad news. And I told him. Don't marry her. Wait another year. Make sure you want to do this. Don't jump. Part of the reason for that is their fighting and the fact that she cheated on him 5 days before their wedding. Full on went to the bar with friends, fucked some dude at her sisters and laughs about it. He was more scared of being alone forever. So he still married her. Dumb. I know.

So roughly 6 months ago he grew up and started respecting himself and decided that he didnt want to be with her anymore. He pays the rent. He told her to leave. There was fighting yes but she moved out. They're separated. He's wanting a divorce. And he realized that he screwed up marrying her and wants to move on....and realized that the person he loved (ME) was right in front of him all along. Again. They're separated right now. He wants he and I to move into a place together in March when his lease is up. Wants a whole life with me. And truthfully I want a life with him. He's got his spark back since standing up to her. I'm so proud of him for taking steps to reaching his own happiness.

What do you think? Move in together? I know once that happens that it'll be different. But I think starting a life with him and being in a relationship with him will be amazing for both of us. So? Yes? No? Maybe? Thoughts?