Do I have a right to feel this way?

Sam

This is going to be long so I’m going to try and make it as short as possible. I’ve been posting about having court against my ex husband on the 13th because he’s asking for unsupervised overnight visitation every Friday evening to Sunday evening. Dumb fuck hasn’t seen our daughter in 11 months and that’s what he filed for lmao. Anyway. We just filed my cross motion in the beginning of the week basically saying that he needs to have supervised visitation only paid for by him and supervised by the state. He’s married but separated and shares three kids with his wife. He cheated on her last January with her best friend who has six kids. Come to find out two of those six kids molested two of his kids. He denied it though. Now just in November he leaves the girl with six kids for HER best friend who has three kids and lives right down the road from his ex. Mind you. His wife wouldn’t co parent with him at all while he was with the girl with six kids. Now all of sudden his wife Co parents with him and the new girlfriend. I even saw a post where she left her one son with the new girlfriend while my ex worked and it wasn’t even on one of his visitation days! Now here’s where I get mad. I know my ex is going to walk into court saying this and saying that about how he has unsupervised visitation with his three other kids and is going to expect to get it with my daughter. I just feel like his soon to be ex wife is fucking everything up for me for when I go to court. I’ve already told my fiancé if my ex gets anything unsupervised I’m appealing it because no fucking judge is going to tell me what’s right or best for my daughter and throw her to her father who she hasn’t seen in almost a year just to be left alone with a girl she doesn’t know because my ex is a lazy piece of shit.

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Ri

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I couldn't imagine how hard this all just be for you and for your daughter. She has a large family. He doesn't sound like a responsible adult. Clearly he has issues of understanding how baby's are made. With all of that being said the court will penalize you if they feel you are in any way jeopardizing a court order. I don't think your request is wrong but they do believe in reunification and that every parent has rights. I suggest you do ask the court asks and let him fail at it. Let him not show not pay and stumble. I pray for you and your daughter.

Sa

Sam • Jan 3, 2020
That’s the thing. If I do get granted what I’m asking he won’t stick with it. The mere fact that he would have to PAY to see his child will only last a couple of times before he’s out of her life again. Which is for the absolute best. He’s no father and doesn’t deserve to have the kids he has now

As

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Good luck 🍀