So I just found out I’m pregnant by someone I don’t like. ( and b4 u say “you should’ve been more careful” I was trapped 🥴) I got out of an almost 8 year relationship maybe two years ago and it was extremely traumatic, I started school to completely forget about him and I’ve been in it almost 16 months not to mention I have a 2 year old from that relationship, a jr which really made the healing process longer for me do to post Partum & the end of what I thought was my whole life 😔 anyways I started talking to a guy about 4 months ago by way of a family member who just wanted to me “move on” and just get out of the house, I talked to him maybe 3 months b4 we had intercourse and everything was okay but i started noticing the way he talked about his daughter saying really derogatory things (fat, sloppy, annoying) and she’s 9 🙃 then he constantly complained saying her grandma better take care of anything else she needs cause he pays $200 on Child support and she can call and say she starving and she getting nothing and just a bunch of other weird negative things about this child but anyways when we had sex prior to these convos about her ( which was only 2 times in one night in the 3 fucking months 🙄😑) I said PUT ON A CONDOM I said “lemme watch you cause I can’t play those type of games” & he said “oh u good I would never 🥜 in you” ok fast forward a month later I completely started ghosting him cause of the shit he was saying about his daughter, I love my son so much I could understand how a parent could talk about their child like that it grossed me out ( & not to mention he made statements about how I should whoop my 2 year olds ass for “crying like a baby” 😑) and just everything about him disgusts me stg 🤮 but then I missed my period and get a + 😑 and im like wtf so i called him and asked him how tf did this happen and he says “well once it popped the fun don’t stop, I prayed for this I knew when the condom popped but I wanted a family,and u been acting bad wit me now u gotta see me for 18 years” I literally had a panic attack, ion know wtf to do and he literally calls everyday like “good morning beautiful, imy can we please be a family” 🤮 I’m really struggling with this any advise would help