I’ve been with my bf for 2 years now he’s is my first in sex and I’m his fourth but I wouldn’t say that means he’s experienced cause he had just fucked them once and that’s just nothing Soooo

1. basically he doesn’t last long he only lasts like 2-3 mins which means that I don’t cum/orgasm. People say to spend more time on foreplay but that doesn’t help cause he does cum when I give him head and when we fuck he still doesn’t last but I feel like this happens cause we don’t have much sex cause we don’t have time🙃 so I get that I just had to let that out😂

2. Since he doesn’t last on top of that when we fuck I don’t feel anything so it gets me emotional and I even start to cry🤦🏽‍♀️ there’s been times when it had felt good and times it don’t. I heard it’s normal to not feel pleasure but still it’s just frustrating.

3. I get shy in bed😭(keep in mind he’s my first) when he makes the move to start sex I just get shy and feel awkward but I just suck it up and play along. Also he be wanting me to touch myself but I say no cause I’m just too shy😭🤦🏽‍♀️ (I feel that the shyness connects to not having much sex)

4. When he gives me head it doesn’t feel as good as I want it to be. Im his first on eating a girl out so I be patient with that and I tell him what I like and he just doesn’t get it

Overall we love eachother and we try to make things better in bed but it just be hard when we both don’t have much experience. And I get frustrated cause he’s my first I have ZERO experience with sex I need advice I’ll appreciate it😫💜