Serious Post partum self care question (For moms who have done it before)

This is my second and we will have an 19 month old as well at home, I am requesting my husband stays home for at least 2 weeks because I will be having a repeat section and will have a toddler to look after. He works with his dad so it will be fine I just have to speak up and tell him I need him.

Which brings me to this list I am making for my post partum wishes, though my PPD didn't really take full effect until 8 months post partum when there was a lot of financial struggles but I am hoping 2020 is a much better year and I want to minimize my post partum stressors so I am making a list of demands I guess for my husband.

Things like please let me/make me go take a shower at least once a day, Let me have one interrupted meal a day to myself, please make sure I have water and a snack when I am breastfeeding the baby, Things like that I was hoping to get some more ideas on what other women like to have during their post partum self care!? Any feedback is GREATLY appreciated! I just really want 2020 to be amazing (Due 6/22 but having a repeat most likely on 6/12)