Please help: What do I do?? Am I not good enough?

Mo

So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years.

Recently some of our friends got engaged, and it really brought forth many emotions on my side.

Since we’ve been dating, 6 of our friends got engaged/married, many of which have been together for an average of 2 years (way less than us).

So my problem comes in with the following - marriage feels like a very taboo topic in our relationship, we barely talk about it, and now that more of our friends got engaged, it made me wonder if we’re ever gonna get there? I’m starting to doubt if he even sees me as his future wife. I don’t want to date someone, only to find out that they don’t want to get married to me? Then I basically wasted 4 years of my life committing to someone who can’t commit to me?

I honestly thought we were in a great place and that we were very happy, but now it just feels like we’re never gonna move forward, or that maybe he’s doubting if he wants to spend the rest of his life with me..

It’s not something I can easily talk to him about, which is my biggest issue. I honestly don’t know what to do? I tried to just leave it, but honestly it’s eating me up inside.. am I not good enough??