I’m married the last time we had sex was once in November. Every time we have sex, it is after me begging for a few days leading up to it. It’s always amazing when we do do it. It’s just always on his terms. Most of the time if I ever try to initiate it, I get rejected. I feel like it’s a control thing. It is hurting me so bad though. I mean is that hard to just have sex every week?

Getting turned down for sex from your spouse over and over is gut wrenching and just hurtful. It just makes you feel invaluable, unwanted, and unattractive.

Any advice??? If he can’t meet my needs then I’m going to have to go.