Team Green?!

My husband and I are pregnant with our second rainbow baby! our first was a boy and We found out as soon as we could what we were having the first time around. Now we’ve chosen to not find out until birth what we’re having and I’m kind of having a hard time connecting to the baby. Is that normal?! I’m worried I won’t have the same connection I had with my first because I cantcall them by the right name or buy appropriate fun baby things. Lol