got caught with a juul, need advice!

i’m 14, too young to be vaping, i know, i’ve been doing it for 2 and a half years. my parents have vaped for as long as i can remember. and i’ve stolen their pods for as long as i can remember also. i never really had a second thought bout it, but now i feel super guilty cause i never thought about the fact that i was actually stealing from them. i’m at my dads now and my mom had gone through my room because she realized she was missing some. and she found a ton. to sum it up she texted me and told me to stop being a liar and a thief and what made me think it was ok to steal from them and i do feel really bad honestly. i apologized a million times. the thing is my mom drags things on and ik this is going to still be something i have to face in a couple months. i got pregnant a couple months ago so .. that’s another thing and it’s still brought up. i mean i get it though, that was a huge thing. she did force me to have an abortion . the thing is i’m going to her house tomorrow. i’m going to have to get through my mom who will call me names and scream at me and talk about me to her friends and my stepdad who will do the same and i was so nervous last night i threw up. i have severe anxiety and i was talking to my therapist about this , and she kinda didn’t give me any advice but that’s not really a therapists job i don’t think.. so i came here. thank you for any advice i get.