Okay so I am dating this guy I really love him and have feelings for him and he says he loves me too, but he does not want to be a dad anytime soon and I want a baby. I dont want a baby with just anyone, I want one with him and I'm voiced this to him and he said hes not ready. He's 25 and I'm 22. Yes I know were both young. I want one with him but I'm wondering if we are on the same page. We use protection and I'm not going to try to trap him or anything like that, I'm not that kind of person. Is this going anywhere? Do people usually decide if they want kids by 25? Or should I move on to someone who wants to settle down