how do you deal with mom shamers? lol

so my husband has a group of coworkers we always go to dinner with every 6 months. well there’s this one woman who is a single mom and our kids are the same age.

everytime i see her she goes “BRAXton can walk now.. yours is what.. a year old? is he retarded? have you tried testing for autism?” or “OH. you vaccinated him? is that why he looks like that?” when they were 2 months old she told me her son says mom, dad, go, all these words and called mine an idiot.

this is just a very dose of what comes out her mouth!

my husband HATES HER. but we get paid for our food and he gets paid on the clock to listen to it. i hold my tongue and nod because i’m pretty quiet. it’s just gonna be another dinner and i’m dreading it. we’re thinking a out skipping out but he can’t.

then she acts so buddy buddy and only talks to me, nobody in the office likes her, but they’re allll forced to go.

ugh i just wanna say “GO FU@K YOURSELF!” but i don’t talk to her i just nod and keep my mouth shut. ughhh