TTC or plan my big dream wedding.... Help

My. BF and I have been TTC for almost a year. We miscarried 8 months ago. He proposed to me on New Years <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">Eve</a> and we agreed to get married in August. But he said he doesn't want to get married while I'm big and pregnant. So he said if we keep TTC and I get pregnant that we'll postpone the wedding. Now I'm torn. We've been trying do long and I'm 41 years old. I don't want to stop TTC but we've been trying for so long and I'm afraid to plan our big dream wedding, invite everyone etc, then have to cancel or not plan the wedding and still don't get a BFP ... What would you do??

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