One of my friends is choosing her dog over her baby
So I have a friend. She’s 23, high functioning autistic, and has been making some poor life choices since finding out she’s pregnant. So basically she found out she was pregnant in July and tbh she doesn’t even know who the baby daddy is which is kinda sad. She slept with 4 different men around the time she got pregnant and denies it up and down even though I have messages from her saying that she did. But she’s been smoking cigarettes, taking dabs, using vapes, drinking, and just not going to any appointments. She went to her first appointment when she was 6 months pregnant. She’s had many 51A’s filed on her. But she still hasn’t been making good choices. She has a dog who’s a big boy and she can’t even afford food for him and her but yet she still is like I’m not giving bandit away he’s my child. Like I get it but if you can barely care for your animal how are you going to take care of your kid. She straight told me today that she’s going to leave her baby in the house alone when she’s on walks with her fucking dog because her words are “I’m not gone long anyway” like NO BITCH you stay with your child. If you can’t care for your dog now you won’t be able to when the baby comes. I’m sorry a human life comes first smh. I just feel like DCF will be taking custody of the baby when it’s born and the meconium tests positive for thc. I even personally called and filed a report while she was out drinking baby bump and all. Shit makes me sick. What would you ladies do if you had a pregnant friend pulling this bullshit and every time you tried to help they basically told you to mind your business.