Am I crazy for still wanting natural vaginal birth?

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So we know bubba has lots of medical complications due to rare genetic abnormalities. 
He’s going to have hole in his heart, be very underweight, and possibly breathing problems (small lower jaw), among a host of other things. 
But I’m still trying to push for a natural, vaginal birth. I know myself and know how I feel and respond to lots of medical input/drugs. And I know I will be calmer if I can have a natural, relaxed birth with as little intervention as possible. 
Baby, honestly, doesn’t have very good chances regardless of how he arrives. And I feel like a vagina birth will be one good things I can do that’s in line with how nature intended it all (I know I sound really hippie). 
Not sure if I’m going through the motions of slowly accepting this crazy new world I’ve been thrown into. Or if I’m been crazy. 
What are your thoughts? I’m 28 weeks at the moment, so still have time to work on my birth plan. Just want some input, advice and ideas. 
Thank you!

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I get wanting a natural birth, but honestly why would you ever want to put your baby at a higher risk that baby already is in??? I would assume your dr has told you they want you to deliver c-section as you stated “ I still want to push for vaginal” therefor why go against medical advice and further risk your baby?

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I would get the advice of trained medical personnel. If they are okay with you having a vaginal birth then go for it!

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I would personally go with whatever the Drs think gives baby the best chance.

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Vaginal birth is the safest and most natural way to bring your baby into this world. Your body, your choice. I say demand it!

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How were these genetic abnormalities confirmed? Is there a name for it?

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Are you wanting to do this against the advice of your doctor? If so, I don’t think it’s a good idea. Regardless of the issues your baby is or will have after birth, there’s no reason to be selfish and potentially make it worse.

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I don’t think there’s anything relaxing about giving birth except for the moment it’s over lol. With all of those complications I would go with whatever will give you the best chance. It’s really about what’s safe for you and the baby.