I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, we’ve had our fair share of issues but we have built a really close bond. But the last few months have been nothing but arguing, and just a general negative vibe whenever we interact. We don’t live together, so when we’re apart we usually text but lately I’ve been leaving him on read.

He texted me good morning and that he loves me, but I don’t even feel like replying. I don’t want to lie and say it back, because right now I’m not sure I even love him. I’ve been distancing myself for a few weeks and I’m at the point I’m not missing him anymore.

It sounds like I obviously should break up with him but the problem is, it would break his heart because he’s still in love with me and wants to work things out. Is it possible that I can fall back in love again if we stop arguing and try to fix our problems? I still care about him a lot, and can’t see myself with anyone else.