So angry, and upset.

My husband is a huge momma’s boy, and involves his mother in EVERYTHING we do.. so when we finally decided on our baby’s name, I made sure to put a huge emphasis on the words “do not tell your mother!”. So a few months went by and he swore he hadn’t told anyone, but then we get a gift for baby, from his sister in law.. it was something to do with baby’s name. He still swore he never told anyone. I ignorantly believed him. When we announced her name at the hospital, his parents didn’t act shocked at all, so once again I asked him if he had told them, to which he replied that he told them the night before right after she was born. A month later he confessed he did tell her early on, right after we picked the name, and she told the rest of the family. My baby is now three months old, but I can’t help getting angry and upset when I think about what he did, and how he lied to me, not once, but multiple times. I also just sit and think about how stupid he made me look because the whole time I had been telling everyone we were keeping it between the two of us. I am genuinely hurt, and it sounds ridiculous, but I don’t think I will ever forgive him. I have now decided next baby name, I will not be telling him.