Please serious thoughts. I'm am 21. I was born with a small bladder. When I was 4 I had my bladder stretched. I still wet then bed. It is extremely embarrassing and I am in a serious relationship and I see a future with him. I don't want him to find out. I set alarms to try and wake up throughout the night but I am such a deep sleeper. I turn my alarms off at night in my sleep. I went to the doctor as a kid but nothing ever helped. I don't know what to do. Please any advice?