Husband's ex wife

Joshalynn

My husband's ex wife is pregnant again. 9months after her first was born. We have been trying for months and she just breathes and shes pregnant. pregnancy are a blessing but I am mad at myself that I can't be pregnant fast like her and that my mother in law is going to bring up how she is expecting the next time we come over the house. My MIL talks about her now and then. I am just beat, hurting because I feel like a failure of a wife or a woman.

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Ma

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Don't be so hard on yourself. You are an amazing woman who will do great things. Just breath an an take sometime to spoil yourself it'll happen before you know it.🎊🎉Best of luck an tons of baby dust🎉🎊

Jo

Joshalynn • Jan 9, 2020
Thanks love. After I wrote that crying my husband caught me and held me so tight. I am so lucky, people around me are so loving.

Sh

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Don’t take it personal. Drink pink stork fertility tea. It worked wonders for me. I got pregnant my first month drinking it. I used to feel the same way.

Me

Megan • Jan 12, 2020
I drank that for months and it didn’t work! I’m glad it did for you though!

Cr

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Same! I’ve had two miscarriages and my husband’s ex-gf has no job, no motivation for anything, and just mooches off everyone and everything and she’s pregnant 😑 with a man she had sex with one time and is not with

Me

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Literally in the same exact boat. My step kid’s mom is pregnant AGAIN. I can’t even get pregnant once and we’ve been trying for almost 2 years. It sucks ass. I feel like a shitty woman and I can’t compete. On top on this: The ex wife, doesn’t even have her two boys. They live with me and my husband. She doesn’t even want kids!

Me

Megan • Jan 11, 2020
You are the sweetest!! Fortunately he does understand and it super supportive. I started my period 3 days late. So ive been emotional all day and he’s been catering to me all day. Lol he’s the best. I’m so sorry that you’re going through this as well. It’s the worst feeling. We can do this!

Jo

Joshalynn • Jan 10, 2020
Oooo that makes my blood boil. Does your husband understand what you are going through? My husband doesn't understand the biological hormones that hit us and make us feel like we are "competing" like you said. Makes us feel like those getting pregnant around us so easily are inferior than us. We got to stay strong girl. God is saving the best for last for us, maybe there is something about the day we find out that everyone is So Ready to hear the news. Much love and hugs. Baby dust. Message me or follow if you wanna keep updated with each other

El

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Don't worry about the women , you will get pregnant fast . Just have faith in yourself. I'll send you baby dust your way . Best of luck ...