5 yrs ago almost my husband decided he was done having kids after our second born was a few months old he said he couldn’t do it anymore the sleepless nights this and that so he said he was done, I told him how I felt about because our whole relationship we talked about three kids minimum I want to three kids he wanted three kids we had our first born at 17 yrs old and she was almost 8 when her brother was born, he said he did not care how I felt, his body his choice (yes I understand that it’s his choice) we didn’t get to talk about it all all because it was only three weeks in between when he decided he wanted to get it to when he got it and I had a go with to all his appointments drive them home after he had it done and the day he decide to scheduler i had stuff planned it was my daughter‘s Girl Scout party night so he thought I was just gonna not bring her and stay home with him to care for him and I said no your choice you could take care yourself I had no choice in this at all I had to tell the doctor what he wanted to hear I had to act like I was all for it otherwise I would never hear the end of it if I really said how I felt about it to the doctor, And now he likes to make the cracks about how he kinda wished it would fail so we could have a 3rd baby! I hate him for it and I told him how I feel about it all and told him to stop talking about a baby cuz he made sure it would never happen.

Yes I know you can go get a vasectomy reversal but insurances do not cover it and it’s thousands of dollars to get it reversed and they always don’t work. 

WOW THOUGHT THIS WAS A PLACE TO PUT WHAT WAS BOTHERING US OUT THERE TO GET IT OFF OUR CHEST!

We even talked about a 3rd child when I was pregnant with our son and how we hopped it wouldn’t take years to get pregnant again!