hey everyone!

my boyfriend and I have been long distance for a little over 3 months now. before this we had already had a very committed relationship where we even lived together. we have had great moments and incredibly low moments, but as of lately my insecurities are starting to take over:(

I know that most likely I am just getting impatient for our reunion (1 month away♥️) and maybe just stirring problems in my head. as of lately though, it’s just feels like he’s not as interested as he used to be. it feels like I put in more work to make sure that he feels loved.

It may seem petty, but I really want to step back from some of the things that I do on a daily basis to see if he steps up. Any thoughts on how to go about that without being cold? We have a time difference of 6 hours which can make it hard when the your s/o has already lived half their day before you wake up. Any general advice on how to stay closer when you have such a time difference in your way sometimes.

Even though I complain, most of our days are really great. It usually feels like we’ve found what works for us, but sometimes people get into my head with their opinions on our relationship.

Sorry for the rambling😂 I think I just need some advice

thank uuu