Long Distance Problems

I am currently in a long distance marriage. We both live in two different countries but we see each other very often. Everything has always been good between us. But lately I feel distant from him. Most of the time he likes to be watching tv or hanging with his boys drinking beer. I honestly at times feel unappreciated and lonely. I know he’s not cheating we follow each other on the app and I make sure to FaceTime him everytime he goes out or is with his friends to make sure. Lately we got in a very bad fight when I visited him over winter break and he got very pissed and decided to leave to his friends house to drink and left me alone. Very time I visit him I feel like he picks his friends over me and when we are apart it’s the same thing. I am honestly feeling tired of the situation and I don’t know what to do. I have communicated this with him but he tells me I don’t understand him. I need advice.