The donor provided the DNA - that's just the blueprint. Every cell in my baby's body is bring knitted from my own flesh and blood. What she provided was one single cell - by now my baby has millions all made from me...granted to her blueprint. If an architect drew up plans for a house, and I took those plans and built that house with my own hands, if I laid the bricks, installed the windows and tiled the roof and plastered the walls I would feel in my heart that the house was mine and I had made it (not the architect) the architect provided the potential for a house, but it wasn't a house it was blue ink on paper, - I made the house, I made it myself