About Sex...I need an answer please..!

lady

1: i rarely get turned on when am with my man no matter how much I love the person..I have sex just to satisfy them..once he enters me after like 5minutes in my mind am like " please just cum and let me rest"..😂 and I don't have orgasm whilst having sex except he gives me a head ..please is this wired or normal? .

2: I mostly get turned on seeing women have sex, or watching a lady masturbate and also if I sight a dick one time, but if I keep seeing it I don't get turned on anymore please is this normal?