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stephanie • Gave up on TTC after 4 yrs

My uncle and aunt have been struggling with infertility because they struggled for 5 MONTHS to get pregnant.

They are in their later 30 and her dr put her on a shot to try. That's what they are classifying as infertility.

I might be very bitter about it but to me they didn't have to struggle. My family feels so bad they had to struggle. I've been struggling for almost 4 yrs and they dont care.

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Infertility is hard no matter what age you are, but personally it started hurting that much more when I turned 35 this summer. It's the idea that your running out of time that's so scary. They also classify infertility differently after 35. I believe its only 6 months. My hubby and I have been trying on and off for so long at least 6 years. Lots of baby dust to you. My mom always belittles our infertility as well. Saying things like maybe it's not meant to be. Of course she was singing a different song when it took my sister a couple years to conceive. Good luck!

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stephanie • Jan 17, 2020
I know after 35 6 months is infertility. I guess I'm more annoyed that they tried 5 months on the 6th month she took shots and got it 1st month. My family is oh I feel so bad for them blah blah blah. They know in April is 4 yrs for me and my sister told us it's a good thing because we'd prob poison it with chemicals we spray in our yard to get rid of bugs. I am happy for them and I'm glad they were able to. I just hate how everyone else seems to get pregnant and I cant. This yr will be our 3rd infertility dr well see