So I married into a hispanic family and have been married for 2 years. I’ve tried my very best to become part of my husbands family. I’ve learned most Spanish and have made one or two hispanic meals. Well today I tried I big one. I made posole verde and worked very hard on it. It’s fairly easy but new for me so I was very proud. Well no one told me that my father in law planned on making caldo. So he assumed that I made the posole because he was making caldo which made him upset. He didn’t tell me good job or offer to try it or anything and honestly I feel so defeated. I feel like complete shit. I just out my posole in Tupperware and came into my room and have been crying for the past hour....I was also going to try to make arroz con leche in my crockpot but I am not feeling up to the task anymore.