Help please, my daughter is almost 14 months, I’m a first time mom. I’ve made big mistakes starting with letting my daughter sleep with me and was never really strict on bedtime routines. Now I’m feeling like a horrible mom. I wake my daughter up 8-8:30 every morning, her first nap can be between 10-12:30 I only let her nap an hour. Then her second nap can be anywhere from 3-5. I use to let her sleep as long as she wanted, but I’ve been trying lately to only let her nap an hour. Thin koi no she’ll go to bed around 9-10 for for tonight for example she went to sleep at 12! Idk what I’m doing wrong, my husband keeps telling me to let her sleep in as long as she wants in the morning but I don’t think that’s a good idea. I just feel helpless rn