Seen this YouTube video where they ask people this question and wanted to hear other responses.

For me, I wish I never heard this. “Maybe its a good thing she passed away, that way she would never end up like you or your mom.”

I was told this in a heated argument a few months after I lost my daughter. It felt like my chest caved in and I was speechless. I forgave the person who said this to me, but I can never forget those words and how they made me feel.