Feeling defeated

I've been trying for almost a full year to get pregnant and I feel like my husband doesn't want it as much as I do anymore. I mean in the beginning he was totally into having sex all the time,he would even go out of his way to remember my fertile days and when we didn't fall pregnant in the first 2 months i could feel that he just wasn't as interested in things and now that were 10 months into "trying". I just feel like im the only one really trying now and it hurts because I want this more than anything. I've been taking vitamins, supplements and living as healthy as i possibly can the past 10 months and it feels likes its all just going to waste when he blows me off when i try and get him in the mood he pushes me away... Have any of you ladies delt with this? Any advice on how to go abput getting my view across without hurting his feelings and causing a fight? Im praying that tbings get easier but I have a dreadful feeling they wont without help.... Ughhh i need advice!!!!