Ashamed for wanting baby :(

My boy and I have been trying for a baby for a while, but recently I’ve asked people what they think and they shame me for wanting a baby and not going to college. I feel like shit all the time about it and it doesn’t help that’s baby fever is so real😫 I just wanted some support, so I turned to this app, but my first post was attacked by two people telling me that there’s no “signs” outside of changes to the body, like come on I’m just asking for a little support🥺