I’m thinking of completely my family in the next year or two with a fourth child. With 5 miscarriages in total I have no guarantee that when I choose to start trying and finally fall pregnant I will go to term so that being said this can take me into my early 30’s and I feel abit “old” to be doing it again? (No offence is meant to anyone here). Also my partner is currently 42 so could be say 44 by the time we have another and I’m worried about what people will say not just now but in the future for example when we have a 10 year old and he’s in his 50’s..

I’d love a big family and although 4 children isn’t really considered big I only grew up with 1 brother a mum and 1 set of grandparents, I didn’t really have a family or so it felt and I’d love to not only have this for myself now but for my children when they grow up, cousins, nieces and nephews and the whole sh’bang! :)

Ive rambled slightly, Sorry and I look forward to any replies!

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