Took video of having sex with me

So I’ve been with my boyfriend for 5 years. Yesterday I used his phone and I decided to look and see if he had any cute pictures of our son together well when I was going through his photos I saw a video from New Years. That day I got super drunk and I mean drunk to the point I blacked out and went to bed since it was the first time I’ve drank in over a year. Well I see this video and it’s of my boyfriend having sex with me while I’m sleeping. Like you can see that I’m legit asleep. Idk how I feel about this like in a way I feel violated but then like do I have a right be violated since I was so drunk. I definitely don’t like the fact that he recorded it because what if his phone gets into the wrong hands.