How would you feel?

Question

I gave up my son for adoption 5 months ago. I just found out his adoptive mom is 6.5 months pregnant.. So when I choose them to be his adoptive parents she would of been pregnant because she got artificial inseminated. So if you were in my shoes how would you feel if you never got tol￼￼d that she was pregnant before you even decided to pick them ??

Answer

I'm not sure, but I do know from the sound of it that your baby is in a loving home and you decided they'd be great for them. You did great. That's all that really matters.
The woman may have not even believed that her pregnancy would last, if they've had trouble getting pregnant in the first place.

Answer

I personally would probably be pretty upset, but would hear out their reason for hiding it from you. My concern would be that they 1) knew she was and hid it from you due to being AI and 2) you have NO idea what her intentions are. What if she plans to artificially twin your baby with hers? (Which is a real thing people do and can be detrimentally damaging to child’s mental health). I wouldn’t explode or anything, but I’d 100% investigate.

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