The father of my unborn child current does some things that may be considered illegal to get money. Am i wrong for telling him that he needs to choose to make better decisions for his first kid? I have 4 other children from my ex husband. Today is my sons 4th birthday and he looks up to this man now considering his real father is not around. He complained that i didnt tell him in advance what i was doing for my sons birthday (I deff did but of course he doesnt remember) but regardless I feel like he knew when his birthday was and should have cleared his day... Am i wrong? I included a pic of what I texted him .