So recently I matched a cute guy on dating app. Charming dude with some humor. He doesn’t like to be “boring” and suggested that our first date should be making out. He had his own argument on how it is not a hookup, but it is still a hookup to me so I went to his place.

So that day, we did what he suggested and he fingered me but refused to have intercourse. I tried to have nice conversations through text after that but they were pretty short. I just asked him about his interest/hobbies and the only stuff he’s interested in are cars and motorcycles. I think he wants some form of emotional connection (from how we interacted at his place and phone call) but I don’t know if he’s just dumb or I was wrong about the emotional connection part.