I feel so frustrated with our sex life. I have a high sex drive, while he used to have a high one also, it has now turned into not even being able to get hard. He says he can only get hard eating me out, but I don't like that, I'm open to other foreplay but he won't budge, it's either be eaten out or no sex for us. Lately I've been having times where I wake up to him watching porn, which I have no issue but he gets embarrassed and stops what hes doing. When we try to be intimate he starts talking about how hard his day was with the kids and totally ruins the mood. I tell him all the time to just relax, clear your mind and I try my best to seduce him but I've never had luck. I am just so frustrated.