My (f 23) and my BF (m 22) have been together for 5 years. We lived with his parents for a few years and now we finally got our own apartment. The week we signed the lease I got into a terrible car accident. I was in the hospital for the week with a concussion, whiplash, and a spinal sprain.

My symptoms leave me depressed, suicidal, in pain and anywhere but horny.

Getting ready to move and while we have the house to ourselves for a few days, I’ve made dinner every night and been in my robe or something for him to come home to.. only to be on his phone the entire time.

making dinner and having everything clean for him to come home to makes me feel sexy... he knows that

While I understand we are young, during this entire process he had been extremely stand offish, and rude because I was never horny. I had (still do) have a lot on my mind and go figure out so sex really isn’t top priority atm. Anytime symptoms show up and I’m not horny he will basically ignore me, say 1 word answers and not even talk to me. Or just stay on his phone the entire time.

I’m at my end, I’m still in so much pain, I really can’t handle this stress. I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to loose him but this treatment isn’t ok. Any advice would help