I have been a SAHM since we had our daughter over 2.5 years ago and it has NOT been easy at all. I love my husband for getting up at the butt crack of dawn to go to work everyday and provide for his family, but when he says stupid stuff like “your home all day, this that and the other should be done before I get home” I just feel like 👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽 in the throat sometimes 🤦🏽‍♀️ He has a great job at PEPCO and makes great money but he has admitted to me that most days, they have lots of down time and don’t have much to do🤔🤔 We also have a cleaning company and one contract that we do every weekday, and we split days going to clean the place so one of us can be home with our daughter. I just finished making us a big diner and we sat down like normal and got ready to eat. I was being rushed because today, I volunteered to go clean the place for my second night in a row.. because he missed out on sleep the night before, trying to have grown up time at 2am like he didn’t have to be up by 6:15😒😒😒 I feed my daughter sometimes when it’s something she won’t willingly eat on her own like broccoli... So I’m trying to feed her and myself at the same time as usual, and he actually said the words I have been wanting to hear for years now 👀👂🏽 He said “ Babe you are really doing a good job and I really appreciate everything you do” but that’s normal... He then goes on to say “ You actually do way more than I do everyday just going to work, but I’ll never tell you that” then he smirked 😏. 😳😳😳 I should have recorded that just in case he tried to say it never happened. I’m sure he’ll go back to his normal way of making me feel like I don’t do crap all day and everything in the house being clean, kids alive and fed, bills are paid, diners cooked, clothes are washed, kids hairs done, bathed... etc etc etc.. is all happening by magic maid fairy’s, while I sit around all day..😑😑 But today was the day I heard exactly what I needed him to say. “You do more than I do as a Stay at home mom”. This may not be a big deal to some, but those moms out here who get treated like the maid who shouldn’t complain or need a break😳😳 They understand where I’m coming from😅

Sorry for the long rant😅 but I need to have this written down somewhere for when he converts back to being a dill hole 🤨☺️