Advice

So every time I find a place for my husband and I to rent. He always says no and I asked him today why. He said that he can't live without his mother. I told him we need a place of our own and he needs to let go. She will not let me parent my daughter how I want too and she will not listen when I tell her no about something. Like yesterday she was letting my 7 month old drink soda. I am dying in the inside and my husband will not stand on my side. He always tells me that I am rude and she knows what she is doing. So today I told him either you live with me and your daughter or we can get a divorce and you can live with your mother the rest of your life.