We are pregnant with our 3rd and final baby. We have 2 girls already so naturally we are kind of hoping this child is a boy. But I know I have to be realistic that it could also be a girl and not get my heart set on a boy.

However, when it comes to baby girl names I am having sooo much trouble. I could go on for days on boy names that I love. It was VERY hard to choose our girls names and I was never in love with their names either, it was just like “it works” so we went with them.

So I like “old” names. I’ve heard probably every name in existence and there’s only one that kinda makes my heart flutter 😂 I heard this name as a child and loved it then but forgot about it until now. The problem is it’s considered and “unusable ugly name”

So the name is Bernice. Yes....😐😑....Bernice. I haven’t told my husband I even like this name because I know he will shoot it down. And even if he liked it, the social judgement would be too heavy and she would definitely get bullied. I was trying to play around with nicknames for it or similar names and the name Birdie gives me the same vibe. I love them both. But both are equally as strange in my opinion.

Idk what I’ll do. Opinions please lol