Hey all so probably a dumb question but I am really new to all this and always in the past I’d get up after sex (depending whether I could stand lolll) and clean up down there or hop in the shower...

Now that we are officially TTC am I supposed to lie there and make sure his stuff has a chance to do its thing before I get up? I still want to clean up before I get dressed but I have to remind myself we actually want this to happen haha (so many years of condoms and pulling out it’s hard to retrain the brain that this is no longer considered an oops!)