So I just discovered my darling boyfriend who I love so much might be stealing from me and is definitely stealing from my mom.

I’ve been saving money for a long time to go on a trip eventually that was supposed to be this summer but now it’s next. I was working 2 days a week with irregular hours because of my job and so putting away money was always really hard with bills and such. The last time I counted I had well over 300. He had contributed some because he was supposed to go with me but he hasn’t been lately as we’re supposed to move in June of July.

Today I went to count to actually check if I had a 10 to give my mom some change. I told her about it and I know she would never steal from me. We’re going to talk about it tonight and I’m not exactly sure how to go about this.

Please help I really need some sort of advice.

SIMPLIFICATION

So I’m saving for a trip to Oregon and I should have over 300 in it. When I counted today I had 200. He was saving with me but didn’t even contribute 100 before he stopped. He now is saving for us to move in June or July. He has also been drinking my mothers liquor and refilling bottles with water or tea.

I am calling him tonight to confront him but I don’t really know how to go about it and could use some advice.

UPDATE

I called him. I told him about the missing liquor. He admitted to that.

He was really depressed a few months back about getting fired and he has started drinking but had since stopped.

I also told him about the money. He said he thought he’d only taken 20 to get gas.

It was very hard for me to put money away for a long time because I was working 10 hours a week and paying bills still.

I’m still not sure if he just didn’t want to admit to the other 80 or more but he said he hadn’t taken it.

He started crying at the end of the call and told me to leave him alone.

I really love this man and he brought me out of a depression when we first started going out and I don’t want to lose him. He’s going to pay the difference in my missing money and pay for all of the stolen liquor by Friday.

I trusted him completely and I don’t really know how to move past this because it’s also not the first time he’s lied to me like this.

Because he admitted to it and is going to try and fix it I’m not going to leave him.

It’s hard because now he’s my best friend that I tell everything to.