Why does God do the things he does?

I love God and I understand that he does things for a reason and that the dark times make us stronger. But I just don’t understand why he does some of the things he does. For example today everyone got the news that Kobe Bryant and his 13 year old daughter along with some other people died in a helicopter crash. I just can’t wrap my head around the fact that that happened. He left that mans wife and children to fiend for themselves sad and miserable. I don’t know these people personally but I’m sure they were good people and if it happened to them it could damn sure happen to me. I just don’t understand. Why would he do something like that.

*plz no negative comments I’m only looking for some guidance