To sum it up, my husband is in the National guard and has been cheating on me for well over year and a half, got me pregnant and forced me to have an abortion, then abandoned me, pretended and lied to me for so long, took my paychecks, abandoned our apartment, took my furniture, and moved in with another girl in the military and got engaged to her. This girl has all the evidence on her Facebook. The girl is active duty but my husband is not. I cannot her divorce help from a military jag since my husband is not active. I do not have the funds to be able to get a divorce. Is there any way I can make him pay for it? All contact from my husband has been severed. Advice would be amazing. I’ve been hurting for so long is such a neglectful and manipulative relationship and I want out so bad.