I’m getting incredibly frustrated with my husband. Baby was born on the 24, Obviously my hormones are out of wack and I’m tired. He continues to ask me why I have an attitude with him and then gets snippy with me for no reason. That is why I have an attitude.

He has offered to take the baby for 2 hours at night so I can sleep before the next feed. The problem with this is baby gets fussy and he does absolutely nothing to soothe him. I have heard him crying for the last hour straight while dad is doing laying video games 😡. When I do suggest a way for him to soothe the baby he gets an attitude with me.

Baby has a slight bit of jaundice and the drs have suggested to feed him more frequently to get more bowel movements. I also think he has a tongue tie (getting it looked at tomorrow) so hes just not getting as much during feedings. Dad has asked why I don’t want to supplement with formula and I have him my reasons and he just gets all pissy with me and treats me like a bad mom. My milk hasn’t come in yet as well (only 3 days postpartum) so when he saw there was only a little in the haakaa pump he goes “he’s not getting enough to eat”.

I’m so over the unhelpful remarks and lack of effort on his part!!