Is it me or him?

My husband and I have been married for 2 years now, throughout our whole relationship (even before we got married) I’ve only orgasmed 9 or 10 times and my husband never even bothers to ask if I finished or not. When we have sex now i can’t seem to ever get wet anymore or even want to have sex...Im a very horny person and so is my husband....any suggestions on what I should do? 😕

(Ive talked to him about how I feel and everything. He says he will try to make me orgasm but never seems to have the intention when we are having sex.)