Do I break up with my boyfriend or not???

Question

Okay so my boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years (it will be 2 in April) and idk if I’m really feeling the relationship anymore. Like don’t get me wrong he’s an amazing guy and he never treats me wrong...but I just feel like my feelings for him aren’t there anymore. Here lately I have been thinking about what it would be like to be single for a while or to be with someone else and how enjoyable it would be. I guess the thing that gets me the most is how immature he can be. Like I am the youngest of my siblings and he is the oldest of his so I matured faster...he is 20 and I am 19. I just feel like sometimes I can’t tolerate his immaturity or how he acts in public...I get so annoyed really fast with him. Also, whenever we have a disagreement and I try to explain how i feel it always turns into him saying “it’s all because I’m an idiot” or “sorry I mess everything up” and I ALWAYS end up comforting him and I never get to explain how I feel or why I feel that way. What do I do??? Or how to I break up with him?? I need all the advice please😭😭

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I think you should sit him down and tell him everything you just said in this post. Be brutally honest and let him go, and you go and enjoy your life while he takes the time to find a way to enjoy his. Best way to break up is to rip it off like a bandaid. And when he’s sad and crying about you trying to leave stay strong and tell him you just lost feelings and it’s just not working and you want him to be happy but with someone else.  Or something like that. do you. It’s your life and you only get one so do what you want and be selfish and have fun

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I’m the same way, I always end up comforting him for feeling bad even though I low key don’t care that he feels bad because it truly did annoy me or make me mad etc.

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Just know that You’re feeling this way because the “honeymoon” phase is over and if you’re breaking up with him because you’re not feeling the same anymore then girl... know that you’re gonna feel like this in every long relationship you’ll be in because you guys are used to each other n shit to fix that you guys supposed to spice it up and do different things but if you guys do the same thing over then ofc it’s gonna be boring. Just wanted you to be aware about that but if he’s immature or whatever which sounds annoying then do what you gotta do

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From what you are stating i think you already have your answer. You are young and it's ok to want to experience more before thinking about being with someone for rest of your life. Nothing wrong with taking a break. Be clear about what the break/breakup means. You dont want blured lines and ppl getting gurt. i am the oldest of my siblings and these most mature and level headed out of all 4. So being the youngest or oldest has nothing to do with it.

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Explain this to him as if you were talking to someone else. Be 100% transparent and honest about everything. If no improvements are made, and you're still unhappy, you might break up with him. Don't just silently reach your breaking point and do something you'll regret or blindside him with built up thoughts and emotions. Two years is a decent amount of time and I think a fighting chance is deserved. This is all my opinion and what I would do personally of course. Best of luck.

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If he’s not making you happy & you’re thinking about being single that just leave. Tell him it’s not working out & you’re no longer interested in the relationship. Be honest about your feelings and walk away. No reason to be with someone you no longer like

Do I break up with my boyfriend or not???

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