Is it emotionally abusive to send your partner a lot of long paragraphs through text every time you get angry?

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Not necessarily, but you should learn to communicate in person or your relationship won't last.

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I don't communicate well in person. I like to do so on paper better because it gives me more of a chance to figure out what I want to say and how to word them. So if we had a really big misunderstanding (which rarely happens), I write a long letter explaining everything. And he often does the same. It keeps us cool and collected and gives us a chance to fully hear what the person wanted to say before we can make any comments. I don't see it as abusive, but then again we never attack eachother in our letters. We never shift full blame on one person nor do we make threats. So it really depends on what is being said

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It really depends what the paragraphs say... 😂
My husband and I both do this sometimes and it actually helps us to argue more productively because we can be more articulate about our perspectives and less emotional in writing. 
But if the paragraph is like bitching and cursing that’s not productive lol

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You can be emotionally abusive within those long messages but the act of sending messages is not.

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It's never a good idea to text when you're angry, or, for that matter, to address serious relationship issues by text and when angry. Texting is quite possibly the worst form of communication ever.

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I won’t communicate via text over things like that-so much can be misconstrued that it typically makes matters worse

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Depends but it’s would probably be best talking face to face about it instead of sending aggressive paragraphs

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It depends on what you're saying. I highly recommend though that you write your feelings down in a separate place and really consider if that's what you want to say to your partner when you've cooled down

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It depends on what is said... (obviously?!) If it helps communicate in a calm & respectful manner to use text, then that's great

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I wouldn’t necessarily say it was abusive, but I would say it was immature and whoever it is needs to get a better handle on how to manage their emotions and communicate.

Is it emotionally abusive to send your partner a lot of long paragraphs through text every time you get angry?

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