My fiancé just said to me “ it could be me” as I stared at my way to early to have tested negative pregnancy test. Then my voice got loud and high pitched as I yelled back “ I look at the three you already made with you ex and one that was made just three years ago.. so it’s obviously not you”. I never feel resentment towards the kids but it does hurt looking at my step kids and knowing their mom got them without any effort just she chose to get pregnant and got pregnant I know this because it’s spoken about quite happily by everyone. Now here I am fighting every month planning, dieting, praying... and I get nothing. Is there any step moms who feel the pain of trying just to have one?