I wanna do this anonymously because

This might be controversial.

I'm in no way romantically interested in my colleague, nor do I want to be.

But I've been working with this new dude for a month now and I only realised this week how he's basically the perfect guy.

He looks amazing, he's toned but not overly muscular, he's just healthy fit.

He has great appearance, always looking well cared for, a little bit poshly dressed but not in a cocky way, he just has nice clothes which look good on him.

He's incredibly smart and learns new things in a heartbeat. But not rubbing it into anyone's nose, he' s actually quite humble.

He's compassionate and caring (I've been having extreme fatigue due to pregnancy and sleeplessness and even though I have colleagues I've worked with for a much longer period and I had a good connection with in the past I feel like he's the only one taking the time to show compassion and understanding for my situation)

He's also funny, kind and very open to talk to, he's very disarming, which is probably why I didn't quite notice this before.

He took a day off a few weeks ago to buy an engagement ring for his wife to be.

Ahw ❤️

That's so cute.

Anyways. To be absolutely clear.. I don't have feelings for this guy.. But it's the kind of guy I'd want my daughter (if I'd ever have one) come home with, a really good, decent kinda guy.

And tbh, in my entire life, I can't remember having met a guy like this ever.

Women, myself included.. I can only encourage you.. To raise your sons like this 😅